Online Dating Scams

As in the the real world, the virtual world is full of scam artists, liars, cheaters, stalkers, and plenty of other types of unsavory characters. Of course, both worlds are also full of honest, reliable, trustworthy, hard working individuals as well. One of the greatest challenges facing those participating in online dating is learning how to tell the difference between the two. Luckily there are ways to know when you are being scammed and there are things you can do to protect yourself from becoming a target.

Trust your instincts

Women especially seem to be in tune with their gut feelings and this certainly is one of your best defenses. Pay attention to your instincts because more often than not, they are picking up on vibes you may not be noticing. When your instincts start yelling at you to stop communicating with somebody, just do it. You can question your instincts later on, if you need to. Or you can begin working your next prospective love match.

Inconsistent stories, vague responses

There is a good chance you are being lied to or scammed when the other person cannot keep his or her facts straight. Learn how to listen to the words you read and you will learn how to recognise inconsistencies. They normally show up in the basic information another offers such as profession, age, marital status, hobbies and interests, even appearance. When somebody cannot keep these basic facts straight, that person is likely lying.

Talk on the phone

For your own safety and protection, always arrange to talk on the telephone before agreeing to meet in person with anyone that you have met online. You will get a real feel for the person on the other end by doing so. If this person turns out to be the smoothest talker you have ever come across, that should be a red flag. Also, if the person cannot seem to arrange a convenient time to talk on the phone, this is a bad signal and you should consider finishing this relationship.

Asking for money

Anytime somebody you are communicating with online asks you for money or for your banking or credit card details or any other thing having to do with your personal finances, you are being set up to be scammed. Contrary to what people think, even the brightest, most worldly individuals have fallen victim to this type of deception. Even if you are being given the saddest, most distressing or dire story about why the other person needs your financial assistance, it is most likely a lie. It is in your best interest to stop all communication right away, and this person should be reported, even if doing so makes you feel uncomfortable.

Keep personal details personal

The more personal details you give out during your online communications, the more you increase your likelihood of being victimized. do not make known your hometown, name of employer, last name, phone number, real email address, home address, nothing. If another person keeps insisting on this type of information from you, it is time to move on.